I long to see a society were young people are taught and trained to think with their minds and create solutions to the problems around them.
A society where people are more eager to create new things than to relish old ones.
Where we are constantly striving to outperform our last best instead of lowering the standard just so we could reach them.
I’d love to see a generation of young people who are more interested in building their minds and creative thinking capacity more than decorating their faces.
A society where young people think of themselves as leaders and influencers and then SPEAK and ACT accordingly.
Human Capital Development is my PASSION and PRINCIPAL OBJECTIVE.
Equipping my generation with the right tools, skills, Wisdom and Virtues is MY PURPOSE.
I am Peter Akhere, your creative inspirational friend.
Life and Business Strategy for Critical Advantage.
For sometime in my life I was constantly battling a low self esteem and a tendency for depression…
I couldn’t really understand why it was very difficult for me to be truly happy with my life.
Everytime I considered my ‘circumstances’, there was always something to be sad about…
This went on for a long time until I decided to SHIFT MY PERSPECTIVE. And as I shifted my perspective, my inner ‘atmosphere’ and ‘ecosystem’ began to change as well.
I had learned that “Nothing means anything in itself except the meaning we (and God) give to it” – personal interpretation.
So I decided to begin to see myself differently and to interpret things differently… And that has made ALL THE DIFFERENCE
You are constantly radiating the essence of your inner atmosphere in a very subtle (and sometimes unconscious) manner.
And wether you like it or not, who you are inside (who you perceive and believe yourself to be) is what determines your ultimate reality.
It is important to deliberately develope peace in your heart and mind to enjoy peace around you.
It is important to begin to SEE yourself from a Success-point-of-view if you will ever manifest success in your life.
How you see yourself is what determines how you interpret your life’s circumstances. Because we do not see the world the way it is… We see the world the way we are.
#Self_Esteem #Self_Concept #Redefine_Yourself
sometimes we get so weighed down by the regrets of the past or tensed up by the anxieties of the future that we eventually lose the peace in our lives today that we really need.
This is not the best way to live.
There is a simple recipe for DAILY PEACE which I have found. Simple but not necessarily easy. And here it is;
Forget about your past, it’s behind you.
Don’t worry about the future, it’s yet to come.
Focus your attention on THE PRESENT and do the best you can each day.
This frees you from both the regrets of the past and the anxieties of the future. And when you do focus on the Present, do so with a consideration (not a worry) of the future. – This is called PRUDENCE.
If you can master this habit and practice it daily, one day, you will wake up to find that you are living the DREAMS that you have always wanted.
Peace is within your reach
When Life knocks you down, don’t just fall, Bounce!
You see, everyone makes mistakes and some mistakes can be really consequential.
Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations where we just can’t figure out how to move on in life.
Maybe a loved one died… or you lost a huge some of money in an investment… or you failed in business… or you failed a very important examination in school… or a relationship didn’t work out. And it’s kinda like being knocked down REAL HARD.
Get over it.
They say you can’t put a broken egg back together… it’s true (what has happened has happened). But it’s also true that you can make omelette with it (Fry it baby 😉 and enjoy the meal). It’s the lessons you take out of the experience that matters more.
It doesn’t matter how FAR DOWN you fall, what matters most is how HIGH UP you BOUNCE.
But what does it really take to Bounce back? I’ll talk about just two.
FLEXIBILITY. Don’t be rigid my friend. Rigid stuffs crack or break when they receive a hit. It takes flexibility to bounce. Be flexible in your approaches to life issues (while being focused on your objectives) and learn to explore alternative methods as long as they don’t violate your values. Be flexible.
BE PUMPED UP! Yeah, you really can’t bounce if you are deflated, even if you’re flexible. You have to be filled up inside. – pumped up!
This is really the essence of motivation (to pump you up) but like we all know, motivation doesn’t really last. So you need it regularly and often.
Be pumped in HOPE – Hope in a better tomorrow.
Be pumped up in FAITH – Faith in God who can never fail.
Be pumped up in WISDOM – Wisdom for directions and guidance.
… and stay ‘bounceable’.
I’m Peter Akhere
Your creative inspirational friend.
Let the World hear the song of your heart.
Let the Flower of your soul blossom.
Give expression to music and melodies of your spirit.
For out of your belly shall flow Rivers of Living Waters.
And let nothing convince you otherwise.
So I have been doing some serious introspection lately. And Recently, I have had to relearn some of the lessons I’ve known for a while.
It’s not enough to be busy. It’s more important to be PRODUCTIVE.
It’s not enough to be getting things done. It’s more important to get the RIGHT THINGS done.
I noticed I had somehow gotten myself encumbered with lots of activities. Mostly activities that had to do with other people’s business and work to the detriment of mine.
I had gotten so busy doing different things for different people that I barely had time to pursue my goals. This discovery was a personal ‘Call to Action’ for me…
IT’S TIMES TO UNCLUTTER YOUR LIFE.
There is a biblical fable of a man that was given a task by his commanding officer. His task was to keep watch over a prisoner of war. But somehow he got distracted with other activities and the prisoner escaped. His report to the king included words like…
“while your servant was busy here and there, he was gone.” And the king’s judgement to him was not a pleasant one.
Sometimes, you have to learn to deliberately say NO to many people and many things in order to be able to say YES to your dreams.
Many times, the reason we find it hard to stay true to our resolutions and plans for a better life is that we have too many (unnecessary) things taking our emotional energy.
If you find yourself in this situation, it’s time to unclutter.
It’s time to disengage from certain (less important) tasks and responsibilities.
This does not mean you should become selfish and only care about yourself. But to remind you that your your assignment in life (your purpose) should take precedence.
It’s time to #FOCUS on your assignment and pursue your DREAMS.
PS: How has your week been and what have you learned from this post? Please share with me in the comments section.