For sometime in my life I was constantly battling a low self esteem and a tendency for depression…
I couldn’t really understand why it was very difficult for me to be truly happy with my life.
Everytime I considered my ‘circumstances’, there was always something to be sad about…
This went on for a long time until I decided to SHIFT MY PERSPECTIVE. And as I shifted my perspective, my inner ‘atmosphere’ and ‘ecosystem’ began to change as well.
I had learned that “Nothing means anything in itself except the meaning we (and God) give to it” – personal interpretation.
So I decided to begin to see myself differently and to interpret things differently… And that has made ALL THE DIFFERENCE
You are constantly radiating the essence of your inner atmosphere in a very subtle (and sometimes unconscious) manner.
And wether you like it or not, who you are inside (who you perceive and believe yourself to be) is what determines your ultimate reality.
It is important to deliberately develope peace in your heart and mind to enjoy peace around you.
It is important to begin to SEE yourself from a Success-point-of-view if you will ever manifest success in your life.
How you see yourself is what determines how you interpret your life’s circumstances. Because we do not see the world the way it is… We see the world the way we are.
#Self_Esteem #Self_Concept #Redefine_Yourself
UNDERSTANDING YOUR UNIQUENESS – A physical and scientific point of view.
When I was a child, I was told that everybody had a duplicate somewhere else in the world. I was made to believe that God created us all in pairs and sometimes would put those pairs in the same womb to be born by the same woman, and that was the reason for occasional identical twins. (The theory could not explain that of identical triplets though…)
So as a child, I would often try to imagine where my other duplicate could possibly be in the world. What kind of family did he have? Were they rich or poor? Would we ever meet someday? And what would that kind of meeting be like? perhaps we could become best of friends when we finally meet.
But I was wrong to have believed that lie. Nobody is a duplicate of another, not even identical twins. We are all unique and original individuals. And this is a fact that is not only of spiritual and psychological basis, but also of physical and scientific basis.
There are about three major scientific identifiers that literally sets you apart from every other person on the surface of the earth.
1. Your DNA: without getting overly technical, your DNA can simply be referred to as your ‘biological signature’. It is a special encoding in your genes that is not replicated in anyone else. However, it usually has a similar pattern with that of your parents and ancestors. (That is why it is often used to determine proof of parenthood). This further goes to buttress the point that was made in the introduction, that your identity is linked to your Origin, life source and heritage. (Not your circumstances)
You have a unique DNA and that makes you unique.
2. Your Iris: This is a membrane in your eyes that helps to control the amount of light that enters your eyes and reaches the retina. It basically determines ‘how’ you see. But the function of this membrane (Iris) is not the focus here, but its uniqueness. It has been discovered that every individual has a distinct set of iris and it has even become commonly used as an access ‘code’ in high security facilities. No one, no matter how closely related to you has your exact iris.
This can analogously be used to represent your individual life perspective and vision. You have a unique visual perception. Nobody truly sees the world the way you do. Your Vision and life perspective is uniquely yours – And that makes you special.
3. Your Fingerprints: This is perhaps the most common scientific identifier which can even be observed with our physical eyes. No one else in the world has your exact fingerprints. It Is unique to you. Now, your hands and fingers can be said to be your first and natural ‘tools of work’. We were born with hands and fingers with unique prints. That let’s us know that everyone has a unique ‘tool patrern’ for his/her specific life assignment.
Nobody can do things exactly the same way you can. They may look alike, but they can’t be the same. Your fingerprints are unique. And that makes you unique too.
With these three basic identifiers, even scientists agree that you are unique. – Very Unique.
In my next post on this series, I’ll be talking about our spiritual identity in God.
God bless you.
Perhaps one of the worst injustice you can ever do to yourself is to continously doubt your capacity and your potentials. Many of us have heard it times without number that “Whatever your mind can CONCEIVE and BELIEVE, It can ACHIEVE.” And to most people, this is just a Motivational Jargon. But whether you like it or not, it holds true nonetheless.
There are TWO personalities whose opinion about you matter most in life and once these two are in your favour, NOTHING (or No One) will be able to stop you.
The first Personality is God. That means His opinion about you is CRITICALLY FUNDAMENTAL. But we need not worry about this one because God’s opinion about you (and me) is one of absolute positivity. He says you’re ‘More than a Conqueror’, a king and a priest, and one who has ALL of His ability at your disposal.
The second personality whose opinion matters just as much (which you should be more concerned about) is YOU. What you believe about yourself sets the tone for how your life will unfold. Whether you will succeed or fail, prosper or not… will boil down to what you truly believe about yourself. So start developing some confidence in your innate abilities and see how your life begins to change.
It is commonly said that ‘One with God is a majority’. But I dare say that ‘One with God is a complete #Totality.’
Remember that God made you in His image and after His Likeness. And He is no Failure – Neither did He make (you) a failure. So Believe in God and believe in Yourself.
God bless you Abundantly.